Accumulate a team of professional advisors. Find health, legal, financial and other resources before you actually need them.
Ask people you trust for referrals. You may wish to interview several different professionals in each field before you engage their services. This will also help you take your own financial situation more seriously.
Your weekly assignment, should you choose to accept it:
Have a conversation about the professionals that you each think you need. Make list of people you already know that you might want to interview. Then decide whom you will ask for references. Commit to make those inquiries, and report your results to each other at a specific time.
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