Rosanne has given me permission to share this correspondence with you.
Thursday, 7th Hi Laurie, How does a relationship rebuild trust? My former fiancé and I had been together four and a half years when I sensed something was wrong, different, not right.
So I questioned, who he was talking to, he lied to my face denying everything. Saying that I was being crazy.
Well My fiancé (at the time) had been going behind my back and talking, texting, and emailing (from his work account) his cousin's ex-wife for over a month. During this time he proceeded to take her on a lunch date (during work hours), to the first place we had a date, and using cash from our joint checking account.
I did not learn about the lunch date from him. She called me the day I found out telling me how 'its not a big deal' etc etc.
Well needless to say I ended the engagement, moved into an apartment and tried not speaking with him.
Can this be repaired? I do not have any trust in him. He says that it was not physical, but he was emotionally cheating on me.
Thank you so much, in advance!
Rosanne ************ Continue reading »
written by Laurie Weiss
\\ tags: Boundaries, Communication, Difficult Communication, Relationship Advice, Relationships, Self Care