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Which Belief Is Poisoning Your Relationship?

It's finally available! It's a QuickReadBook.com Audio CD. Just click this link and you can see it for yourself: http://tinyurl.com/4nahsgm Here is some information directly from Amazon: The Top 10 Hidden Beliefs About Relationships And How To Stop Them From … Continue reading

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We nearly derailed ourselves [+ time-sensitive contest]

What happened next is one example of the law of unintended consequences.   We kept being asked to teach what we were learning and we might have continued to have quiet psychotherapy and training business, but it would've stopped there: … Continue reading

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Lessons Learned

By 1976, after a painful and nasty organization breakdown, just the two of us were in practice together.   Desperate to understand what had gone wrong, I started studying organizational relationships as well as individual ones. In retrospect, we made … Continue reading

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We almost split up…

As I said in my last e-mail our lives didn't work out quite as we expected.   I started out very much like most of the women I've worked with over the years — possibly a lot like you did. I … Continue reading

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Create Your Own Team

Accumulate a team of professional advisors. Find health, legal, financial and other resources before you actually need them. Ask people you trust for referrals. You may wish to interview several different professionals in each field before you engage their services. … Continue reading

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